There's a classic image that often comes to mind when discussing hidden struggles: the seemingly serene duck gliding across the water, while beneath the surface, its legs paddle furiously. It's a reminder that appearances can be deceiving, that even in moments of outward calm, there's often a flurry of activity, a touch of chaos, just below the surface.
I recently experienced my own version of this duck analogy, albeit with slightly less water and considerably more warped floorboards.
Yesterday, Google announced Project Mariner, a project I've been working on for quite some time. As part of the launch, I filmed a demo video—a polished, professional production set in my home office (which I have spent time decorating to reflect a colorful yet calm design aesthetic):
Here's the thing: four days before filming, my basement flooded. Not a minor leak, but a full-blown, furniture-destroying, floorboards-warping deluge. The kind of disaster that requires ripping up everything and starting over. And yet, amidst this chaos, I had a video to film, a product to launch. So while the world saw the image above - this is what I saw:
As if launching a massive, Google scale project wasn't stressful enough, this added a layer of complication I hadn't anticipated. But I decided to embrace the chaos, grit my teeth, and go along for the ride. It's a skill that's served me well over the years, both personally and professionally.
Lessons Learned from the Leaks to the Launch
This experience reinforced a few key principles:
Prioritization is Paramount: With limited time and resources, tough choices had to be made. The basement repairs, while urgent, had to take a backseat to the immediate demands of the product launch. Learning to ruthlessly prioritize, to discern the truly essential from the merely urgent, is a crucial skill in any context.
Perspective is Everything: Without the looming product launch, the flood would have felt utterly catastrophic. But with the added pressure, it became a relative inconvenience. This isn't about downplaying the disruption; it's about recognizing that our perception of challenges is often shaped by the larger context. What feels overwhelming in one situation might be manageable in another.
Perseverance Pays Off: Amidst the chaos, the only way forward was one step at a time. This often meant multi-tasking, juggling competing demands, and pushing through exhaustion. But by focusing on progress, however incremental, I was able to keep moving forward.
Embrace the Unpredictable: Life rarely goes according to plan. Learning to adapt, to roll with the punches, and even to find humor in the unexpected is essential for navigating the inevitable bumps in the road. This experience reminded me that sometimes, the best way to deal with chaos is to simply embrace it.
Compartmentalization: To function effectively under pressure, I had to learn to compartmentalize. During filming, I pushed the basement disaster to the back of my mind, focusing all my energy on delivering a polished and professional presentation. This ability to focus on the task at hand, even amidst external distractions, is crucial for maintaining productivity and sanity.
In the end, the video was filmed, the product launched, and the basement will be repaired (still working on this one) . It was a messy, stressful, and ultimately rewarding experience. It was a reminder that even when the ducks are paddling furiously beneath the surface, they can still glide across the water with grace and composure. Or, at the very least, they can make it to the other side.
Thanks for sharing the hidden struggles Jaclyn, indeed perception is everything! and Congratulations on your product launch👏🚀. Excited to search "find a Massage Therapist near me that is available tomorrow" , so that I don't have to check gazillion calendars 😅